Gay Sex Positions 

For gay men - how to enjoy anal sex, and the sex positions you can try


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We've seen on the earlier pages what you might call "rear entry" from behind and "missionary". There are many other variations of sexual position in which you can enjoy anal sex, though they broadly fall into two groups: sitting and squatting sex positions, and side by side sex positions.

Anal sex for gay men: the third group of sex positions - sitting and squatting sex positions

Sitting sex is easy! It can develop naturally from a session of kissing and sexual foreplay, or you can move straight into it from any other position in bed as you have sex. Obviously, the man penetrating will feel more comfortable if he lies back on the bed as his partner sits on top of his erect penis. The man on top - who we'd call the "bottom" in other circumstances, since he's taking his partner's penis - can sit either facing towards or away from his partner. Like this:

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or like this:

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As you can see from the pictures above, there are almost unlimited variations of how you can arrange your legs and bodies in these sex positions. Playing around with sex positions is half the fun - getting stuck in a routine of having sex in just one position can be very boring!

Novelty is a large part of sexual excitement for men, and trying different sex positions can keep your relationship fresh. There's actually a page of variations on these sex positions, where you can see how you might try different positions.

When the man on top faces his partner, he can lean forward to kiss; when he faces away, his partner can enjoy the sight of his buttocks. The man lying on the bed has limited movement, though if the man on top raises himself on his knees slightly, it is possible to enjoy some thrusting.

Other sitting or squatting sex positions you could try look like this:

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The sex position pictured in the first of the images above is hard to achieve unless the man kneeling is flexible and/or he has a long penis. It may also need the bottom's hips to be raised on a pillow so that his partner can gain easy access for intercourse. What's more, the amount of movement he can make is limited, but he does have the pleasure of seeing the act of penetration.

The second position is much more achievable for the majority of men, and it allows a degree of intimacy and kissing, while the third picture is probably best reserved for times when you feel particularly acrobatic while you're having sex! The final picture shows a passionate, sexy position where hard thrusting is possible and in which both men can express their full sexual power.

If you or your partner are having trouble reaching orgasm during sex, with long periods of thrusting before you ejaculate, then you may be experiencing what is known as delayed ejaculation. This means that you find it difficult if not impossible to ejaculate during sex.


The fourth group of gay sex positions: Side by side sex positions

The side by side position is relaxing and easy. You start in the traditional missionary type position, then roll over onto your sides, still facing each other. It's a relaxing position, you can kiss and talk, and look into each other's eyes - great if you're in a relationship - and you can also last a lot longer before you come.

This means you can go for a simultaneous orgasm if you want, though it can be fun to watch your partner come, or to take turns with coming first. In this position, the guy doing the penetrating must extend his pelvis between the other's bent legs. Deep penetration and vigorous thrusting are both possible.

You can also lie side by side with one guy behind the other, both facing in the same direction. This position allows you to relax and you have your hands free to explore each other's bodies. Also penile entry is easy and fairly deep, and the bottom guy doesn't have to support his partner's weight. You can also thrust vigorously during sex in this position.

The side by side sex position is a good one for intimate connection and both partners can move their hips. As in all gay anal sex, the longer it goes on, the more relaxed will be the receiving partner's anus, so that deeper penetration and thrusting becomes progressively easier as sex goes on. But the real beauty of side by side sex for gay men is that they can connect emotionally. There's something about reaching orgasm in this position which makes it feel more like a shared experience - and where the two partners are especially intimate, they can even have a sense of merging at the moment of orgasm.

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A note on gay lubricants: the pleasures of anal sex are best increased by using plenty of a suitable lubricant - something that has good staying power, so it won't disperse, but which also retains slipperiness as you make love. Obviously if you are using condoms, you need to be careful to ensure that the lubricant does not have the qualities of oil based lubricants, which will dissolve a condom in minutes. We recommend these:

Eros Silicon - supposedly the best on the market! It solves the perennial problem of stickiness and dispersal with its long-lasting silicon formula. While clean-up takes longer, and it may stain your sheets, it is considerably smoother than most lubricants. Silicon-based lubes are condom-safe, too.

Wet Platinum - Wet is a famous brand, and Platinum lubricant, from their top of the range line, is o long lasting and latex safe, because it is water-based.

Frixion - a less well known name, but this can add spice to your sex life, sooth your skin, and help your libido.....so they say! It's made with plant extracts and natural aphrodisiacs.

Liquid Silk is very creamy and superbly long-lasting! With a lightweight quality, it gives a natural feeling.

Wet Flavored - the other type of Wet lubricant we like is their tasteful range (groan....sorry!). This famous range has flavors lubes ranging from Wine Grape to Strawberry.
 

Venus 2000

The incredible Venus Masturbation Machine is the ultimate male sex toy. It can suck, grip, pulse, and slide along your penis shaft in any combination you choose - hands free! And since you have complete control of the powerful pump, you can deliver exactly the right pressure and type of stimulation you want! This amazing machine will give you the most exquisite sensations you can imagine, for as long as you want, as often as you want.

If you want a mind-blowing orgasm, turn the pump up to full (if you can stand it!) and be prepared for it to bring you to your knees as you shoot your load with more force than ever before! Or turn the pump down and extend the sucking and pulsating action of the Venus for just as long as you care to, making your orgasm last longer than ever before! Truly, there is nothing like this machine; you have to feel it to believe it.

The Venus can also be used for nipple stimulation and penis pumping for the purpose of enlargement. But most men use it because it produces incredible, mind-blowing orgasms like they never, ever experienced before! (Full money back guarantees and warranties are offered. We know and recommend the owners of this company personally. Their service and attention to detail is superb.)

The incredible Venus Masturbation Machine is the ultimate male sex toy. It can suck, grip, pulse, and slide along your penis shaft in any combination you choose - hands free! And since you have complete control of the powerful pump, you can deliver exactly the right pressure and type of stimulation you want!

This amazing machine will give you the most exquisite sensations you can imagine, for as long as you want, as often as you want.
If you want a mind-blowing orgasm, turn the pump up to full (if you can stand it!) and be prepared for it to bring you to your knees as you shoot your load with more force than ever before!

Or, if you prefer something more long lasting, turn the pump down and extend the sucking and pulsating action of the Venus for just as long as you care to, making your orgasm last longer than ever before! Truly, there is nothing like this anywhere else on Earth; you have to feel it to believe it. Some men say it's better than sex or masturbation, and you know what? I think they might be right!

The Venus can also be used for nipple stimulation and penis pumping for the purpose of enlargement. But most men use it because it produces incredible, mind-blowing orgasms like they never, ever experienced before!
(Full money back guarantees and warranties in operation. We know and recommend the owners of this company personally. Their service and attention to detail is superb.)